Why would a guy avoid you if he likes you? 5 things you should know
You have observed actions of this particular type for weeks. His looks, the way he behaves around you, the things he says, are all indicators that he really likes you. But all of a sudden you see his behavior change. Start avoiding yourself! This article shares 5 things you should know Why would a guy avoid you if he likes you?, so that you can get and keep a worthy man who appreciates you for life.
# 1 Must Know: Some guys just can’t bear to lose control of their emotions.
Loving someone is irresistible. When a man likes a girl and is attracted to her, he begins to behave irrationally and sometimes cannot control what he thinks and feels. Some guys hate losing control of their emotions. And because having control of his emotions is much more important to him than liking a girl, that guy will do what he can to control his emotions. He will avoid the girl he likes so that he can stay in control, because she is what keeps him comfortable in his life. It is his way of facing life.
If the guy you like is like that, I urge you to leave him alone. Leave it to your preferences. It will take a lot of effort to help him see that it is safe for him to open his heart and lose control of love.
# 2 You should know: Even if he agrees to be in a relationship with you, he may still resent you for being the source of his discomfort.
It sounds crazy, but the human mind can’t help but behave irrationally until someone makes the decision to change and do something about it. Still, it takes a lot of motivation and determination for a person to change. Change can be difficult.
While some say that love conquers all, is it worth all the pain and drama? Leave the drama to TV shows and movies. Don’t waste your precious time and energy chasing after a guy who doesn’t want to change from within. You deserve to be chased and in love with a guy who can’t help but want to see you every day!
# 3 Must Know: A man won’t avoid a girl he REALLY likes.
If a guy really likes you, he will make it happen! He will put superhuman time, effort and creativity to haunt you and become his girlfriend!
Very often, the guy you meet at work, at school, or at social events is simultaneously attracted to MANY girls. It’s not just you. Don’t be surprised if he likes your best friend too! So, if a guy avoids you even though he likes you, quite possibly he might already be actively pursuing the girl he met yesterday, because he can’t wait to make her his girlfriend!
But these are things he’s not going to tell you. Even your closest friend may not know that you are actively pursuing a girl right now!
# 4 Must Know: Men tend to keep their love lives private.
Guys often delay announcing their intentions to chase a girl until they succeed. This way, you save yourself the double humiliation of being rejected and teased by your friends for failing!
So if a guy avoids you when you THINK he likes you, he may already be serious about another girl you don’t know yet. Instinctively, he knows that being attracted to you will jeopardize his plans to be with the girl of his dreams. So he avoids you to keep his master plan intact!
# 5 You must know: it sounds romantic that a the boy is so attracted to you that he avoids you. But it really isn’t!
Stop falling in love with this guy who avoids you. Observe the other guys around you who are doing their best to impress you. It’s the guys who take the time to help you and lend you their ears that deserve a chance! Appreciate them for being an important part of your life. Honestly, why wouldn’t I give a fun, sweet, caring guy a chance? Do you realize that no man NEEDS to spend his time with you? They too can avoid you like this guy has done … so appreciate what you have!